Hangomi khob didan mo mutlaqo ozod meboshem. Moneaho, yane vaqt, fazoi makhdud, qonunhoi mantiq va hatto vijdon ba nazar girifta nameshavand va mo bo on chand peshravihoi guzarandaamon dar in lahzai khobbini khudamonro hamadonu hamakor mehisobem. Ba khotiri on ki hamai chizhoi dar khob sozandaamon az oni khudamon meboshad, Freyd diqqati makhsusro ba khob dodast. Agar meguft u khobbi kasro fahmided, pas khudi shakhsro fahshda metavoned.
Dar usuli bokhiradona idorakunii khob mo mahz ba khobhoi barnomashudai boshuurona sokhtai khud(khobhoi farmoishi) baroi halli: problemahoi paydoshuda kordor meshavem. Freyd khobhoi tabii, yanyo khudbakhud ruydihanda sarukor dosht binobar in onho dar usuly boloy nomuvofiq meboshand. Mo peshaky bbyad barnomai mavzui khobamonro sozem, to ki onhoro ba manfyati khudamon hal kunem, yane az foidaash istifoda burda kz pasi nazoraty zindagii khud shavem.
Omuzishi idorakunii khobbini se etapro dar bar megirad.Avval mo ba yod ovardani khobbi didaamonro boyad omuzem. Kase, ki man khob namebinam meguyd durug meguyad yo ki marizie dorad, ki sabab ba yod ovardani onro nadorad. CHunki vaqge, ki az hayoti mo khobro berun kardem, allakay badi chand ruz norasoihoi aqloni va ehsosii jiddi sar meshavand.
Hob chikhele, ki guftem khusiyati peshguikuni va takidkunandagi dorad. Muallifi kitobi Idorakunii bokhiradonai intellekt (H. Silva)bore to soati 2-i shab kor mekunad va dar khobi ayyoniash dar partavi nuri ravshan avval se raqam 3-4-3-ro mebinad; Bad raqamhoi digar, yane 3-7-3- ro mebinad. In hodisa panj daqiqa davom mekunad, yane u har vaqt in du qatori paydarpayii adadhoro mebinad. U in raqamhoro bo raqami telefonho, moshinho va g-ro ba yod ovarda bo onho muqoissa menamoyad, vale hej aloqamande nameyobad. Ruzi digar u lotereyaro bo nishondodi raqamhoi didaash mekharad va sohibi 10000 dollar burd meshavad. Ajoibot on ast, ki X. Silva chand muddat bud, ki muflis shuda va ba pul sakht muhtoj bud. U in amalro qudrati Hiradi Oli medonad.
Mumkin meguyad H.Silva inro bazeho tasoduf yo taqdir guyand, pas nisbati chand shogirdonam, ki in usulro istifoda burda az 30 000 to 50 000 burd kardaand chi meguyand? Albatta prinsipi lotereya chunon sokhta shudaast, ki burd kamtar boshad, vale imkoniyathoi aqlonivu farosati to ba darajae tavonost, ki metavon adadi burdhoro to hadi imkoniyat ziyod namud novobasta ba khohishi sohiboni loterya. Va ham hastand shakhsone ki muvofiqi qonuniyathoi nazariyai adadhoi ppnodufi metaionand ach lotersya burdhoi ziyod kunand, ki albatta okhiri nasibi shakhsoni bashumor meboshad.
X. Silia meguyad, ki khob sharoiti musoidro baroi giriftani akhbor a:» Hiradi Oli mesozad. Va u boz peshtar msraiad, yans changi telefonii Hiradi Oliro intizor nashuda mskhohad bo khohishi khudash ba u zang zanad va bo u aloqa namoyad. CHi khele, ki shakhsi imondoshta metavonad bo Hudovand aloqa doshta boshad ba vositai duoyu munojot pas mo metavonem bo in usul bo Hiradi Oli Silva Hiradi Oli gayri Hudo ast) aloqa namoem.
Usulhoi aloqa bo Hiradi Oli gunogun meboshand. Boyad fahmid, ki ba umedi nuri ravshan nashuda rohi oson, yane usuli meditasiyaro intikhob namud. YAne pesh az hama barnomai khohishu maqsad va maromi khudro tartib dod va pesh ach khob meditasiya karda boyad formulahoi onro ba zabon ovard, masalan, « Manmekhoham khobi didaamro dar khotir nigoh doram.Man hamai khobi didaamro dar khotir megiram». Badi in boyad khob kard va dar pahlui khud qalam va qogaz guzosht. Hangomi az khob bedor shudan hamai chizero, ki az khobi didaaton dar khotiraton mondaast dar qogaz navised. Va inro to mavridi malakai navishta tavonistani khobi dida davom dihed. Va in ast qadami avval.
Qadami duveum.Hangomi meditasiya pesh az khob dar borai problemai haqiqatan mavjuda, ki metavoned bo yorii akhbori ilovagy va maslihat har namoed fikr namoed.
Bad az pai barnomasozii formulaho shaved: «Man mekhoham khobe binam, ki malumotho dar borai halli problemai man doshta boshand. Man albatta chunsh khobro mebinam va onro bo mazmuni purraash dar khotir megiram». Hangomi bedor shudan fikran holathoi ravshanu ayyoni khobatonro ba yod ovared va harakt namoed to mazmuni onro purra dark namoed.
Misoli digar. YAk nafar, ki dar musobiqai motosikronho ishtirok menamud maqsad guzosht, ki barnomasozni musobikai dar oyanda meshudaro ba vositai khobash omoda namoyad, to ki yagon hodisai nokhushi ruy medodaro peshgiri namoyad. U khob mebinad, ki dar mehmonii dustash ast. Baroi nahori dustash ba u gizoi boloyash bo lubiyoi khomi khokistarrang pur kardashudaro medihad. Du ruz pas u ba safar mebaroad. Havo khub, roh hamvor Az pesh faqat yak moshini borkashi khurd meraft.
Hangomi ba moshin nazdik u mebinad, ki vay az lubiyo pur ast. YAke khobi didaashro ba yod meovarad Va surati motosiklro az 65 ba 25 va pas to 15 mil past mekunad. YAke baloni kafoi moshin kushoda meshaaad va moshin yakbara shuda lubiyokho az moshii merezand. Hushbakhtona surati motosikl past bud vagarna holi u chi meshud faqat khudo medonad.